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What do Disney princesses and urban fantasy girls have in common?

I think everyone is familiar with the Disney princess by now: a collection of boiled sugar girls in sparkly dresses and high heels who happen to resemble the spirited, interesting heroines of the movies we love, all of them posed to perfection in big groups of rainbow loveliness. They stare soullessly from bookstore walls and supermarket shelves, hawking everything from dress-up shoes to fruit snacks. The stories they come from may be exciting, or interesting, or educational, but the Disney princess shows none of those traits when she's on-duty. She's there to be a display, and that's all she's going to be.

(As a total aside, if you want to see these girls when they're off-duty, and hence more fun, check out Amy Mebberson's Tumblr for her Pocket Princesses. They're awesome, and they have the spunk, spirit, and personality that the official Princesses sadly often lack.)

It wasn't until I read the book Cinderella Ate My Daughter that I noticed the creepiest thing about the Disney princesses: they never look at each other. Get six of them in a group, and they will all strike independent poses, they will all gaze at independent points off in the distance. They never make eye contact. They never acknowledge each other in any way. Why?

Because if you're going to be the fairest in the land, you can't ever admit that anyone of comparable fairness even exists. To be the prettiest princess, you must also be the only princess. So all you other princesses can just step off; this is my spotlight.

Creepy.

As most of you probably know, I read a lot of urban fantasy, geared both at adults and the YA market. I enjoy it. It makes me happy. It features, as a genre, a lot of strong female characters doing strong female things. Yes, it has its flaws, because all genres have flaws, but on the whole, it's probably my favorite genre right now.

Only. I noticed a thing. This is a thing that I am not immune to. Nor is it a universal thing (so making long lists of exceptions to this thing is not necessarily helpful, although discussion of specific examples is, as always, awesome). But it's a thing I think we should be thinking about, both as creators and consumers. And it's this:

Urban fantasy heroines have a lot in common with Disney princesses.

The standards for "fairest of them all" are different when your kingdom is a city and your ballgown is a pair of leather pants. You need to be the best ass-kicker, the best snarker, the best crime-solver or magic-user, or whatever. But they're still high standards to live up to, and it's easier to do when there's no one else in your sandbox. If no one else is kicking ass in leather pants, you don't have to try as hard to be the best. Consequentially, we keep seeing urban fantasy heroines with no peers. No other women who kick ass. They might have sidekicks, or even other strong female characters in supporting roles, but it feels like a lot of them...well. Like a lot of them just don't have any friends.

In my daily life, I have a lot of friends who are, well, fairer than me in some ways. Vixy is an amazing lead vocalist. Pretty sure if we were auditioning against each other, she'd get the part. Also, cartoon birdies braid her hair. Cat and Bear and I write very different books, but we're all award-winners and best-sellers and Cat raises chickens and Bear climbs mountains, neither of which I do. Kate is witty and snarky and often faster on her feet than I am, as well as being a thousand times more organized. Meg is a natural redhead who makes her own clothes and bounces back after flying over the handlebars of her bike...and these are only a few of the amazing, incredible, bad-ass women who share my life.

It can be easy, as an author, to smooth and sand the story until all the unnecessary characters are gone, and I can see where that might mean you have to lose a few of the members of the Breakfast Club. At the same time, if that process leaves six male characters and one female, and only one of those male characters is Prince Charming, why are the other five all dudes? Can't we balance things a little? For me, female characters are more believable when they have friends. When there are other women around to talk to, trade tips on wearing leather pants without chafing with, and generally enjoy.

And if someone says that a story containing more than three characters "only needed" one woman, I sort of have issues with that. (In my perfect world, no one would say that about two or three character stories, either. But I'm willing to grant that some stories need two males and one female, if you'll grant that the opposite is also true.) Even Magic Mike, a movie about male strippers, managed to have two female characters with distinct and interesting, if brief, speaking roles.

I don't like that the Disney princesses have been frozen in place, never making eye contact with the only people who could really be their peers and understand the trials of the tiara. I'd hate it for that to happen to our urban fantasy girls, too.
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deire

July 6 2012, 12:23:11 UTC 5 years ago Edited:  July 6 2012, 12:34:56 UTC

The urban fantasy I am limpingly writing has two heroines--twin sisters who are going to have to work together when one hates the other and considers herself far more badass tyvm. They're going to be friends, or they're going to get eaten alive.

seanan_mcguire

July 6 2012, 20:56:11 UTC 5 years ago Edited:  July 6 2012, 20:56:24 UTC

Awesome.
This is what destroyed the Hamilton books for me many years ago. Ronnie and Anita didn't stay friends.
I can see the changes being too much for Ronnie. I can't see Anita never making a second female friend.

jenfullmoon

5 years ago

seanan_mcguire

5 years ago

At the risk of being clobbered, the america girl books not the dolls(heaven forbid) really helped to first get my daughter to read that manga, she is alittle warped. Just saying there might be some redeeming value to the stories from their point of view becasue somewhere between Ranma 1 1/2 and Kayla the little native american heroine to her favorite american girl book she emerge a pretty cool kid.
Why would you get clobbered? I'm a doll collector, you are in dolly safe space. :) The American Girls have a lot to offer. As do the Disney princesses, if they're being consumed thoughtfully and provided by an equally thoughtful parent.
I agree about Anita and Ronnie that really disappointed me, but honestly till October I dont remember a heroine with friends at all other then male counterparts or bartenders. Or maybe its just so obvious that she has lots of friends that its the first time i made a mental note of it.
Kelley Armstrong lets her heroines acquire friends. It's otherwise pretty rare.

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Yay!
In Ilona Andrews' Kate Daniels series, Kate has a friend named Andrea and they both kick ass. And in Kelley Armstrong's books there are female friendships. (Elena and Paige, for instance.)
I forgot about the Armstrong series!

Seriously, now I feel the need to start figuring out which of the urban fantasy heroines have female friends, and start recommending them more.

'Cause it's a trend I hope sticks around.

elialshadowpine

5 years ago

seanan_mcguire

5 years ago

Very well said.
Thanks.
I also find it interesting that all of the Disney heroines are princesses (at least by the end of the movies), but all of the Disney heroes prior to the 90s were either boys or animals. It's a very odd dichotomy.

(And despite the fact that Aladdin had his own movie, you didn't get a whole lot of real character development for those guys until Eugene in Tangled. Hercules—sort of erased itself from my brain right after I watched it. Not that it was bad, more that it was weirdly unmemorable. And the Emperor's New Groove was more of a caricature than anything.)
Alice and Wendy are some of the only non-princesses.

thedragonweaver

4 years ago

seanan_mcguire

4 years ago

muddlewait

4 years ago

thedragonweaver

4 years ago

denisen1

July 6 2012, 18:02:54 UTC 5 years ago Edited:  July 6 2012, 18:04:31 UTC

As a mom of girls, I found early on that the sparkling triumvirate of Snow White, Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty princesses weren't heroes at all, but oft-passive recipients of rescuers. Bummer, that. Nice dresses, fun parties, but all poor role models (the massively successful merchandizing of same still mystifies me ...). Then, something changed. Belle rescued the Beast. Mulan saw the sexism in her own universe and rebelled against same (though having the general as her cool new buddy didn't hurt ...). And now (SPOILER ALERT!) Merida (sp - the Brave heroine) saves the day for the whole clan, forges the sort of truce with her mom that other moms of tweens, teens fantasize about.

At last the fact that Katie (11) prefers to have a sword fight with a tree (trees seem to be patient and understanding that way ...) than discuss the Bieber/Gomez romance isn't considered as unusual by her friends as it was only a few years ago ...

We were surprised, however, by the fact that a couple of movies we'd initially hesitated to rent (on saccharine value alone in some cases) turned out to be female hero/buddy movies. I'm ducking here as I say Tinkerbell and Barbie. I know, I know, Barbie = bad image modeling, and the movies sport equally bad animation. But Abby (now 7) loved Tink, and we rented one movie, only to be pleasantly taken aback by the fact that she's a decent role model (in her own movies that is - let's just put that whole Peter/Wendy thing behind us ...) She makes occasional bad choices, or sees a problem that needs fixing, then gathers her community of other (mostly female) (often fairy) friends and fixes the problem. Ditto for Barbie.

And amazingly enough, in one of the Shrek movies, the various princesses did meet, work together successfully to come up with an escape plan. Go figure.

So my hopes remain high that the no-longer-nascent idea of girl heroines will continue to evolve, trend into buddy movies and books where the lead characters use teamwork (like the Avengers, minus the not-very-well-hidden misogyny) that aren't necessarily marketed exclusively for girls, but attract and retain a wider audience, that in its own right with the power of the economy, further encourages the trend to continue.

Like I've heard said (was it by Tinkerbell?), recognizing there's a problem is the first step towards making a solution.
The Tinkerbell movies are surprisingly balanced and well-thought-out, with a great variety of character types and a strong through narrative. I'm glad you found them. :)
Hmm. Counter argument for a moment:

I think it might be more of a Hero Genre thing instead of a gender thing. A 'proper' Heroic Journey follows one character who is the protagonist, chief problem solver, and has to go it alone. To have a strong partner in there would open up the possibility of the author having to loadshare the problems -- and it takes out the Only You Can Succeed Here onus of a hero(ine), and the possibility of having the partner outshine the 'main character'. The Nemesis is specifically tooled up to match-plus-one rank the protagonist, so the protagonist has to level a bit to be able to win at the end, but even in buddy pictures, one person is the strong character that winds up facing the Nemesis alone at the end. Everyone else gets subtracted by obstacles along the way until it is a mano-a-mano duel. Otherwise you wind up with a B-movie martial arts battle royale, having to write separate miniature fights in the same scene when you only have one camera to work with, because the viewpoint can only follow one action sequence at a time. (Think about swordfighting movies for a moment; wide shots are brief and chaotic 'everyone's fighting' action, but the Big Action is when you narrow focus one very close duel between a main character and a main villain. Until we get multi-threaded books with multi-threaded heads that can perceive and appreciate simultaneous multi-threaded action sequences, this is what we're capable of handling.)

When we write a heroic tale, it is easier to write from (and the reader to follow) the perspective of one character, single path, single goal, beat the Monster of the Week. Everyone else is Support, Comic Relief, or Spunky Girl/Guy Sidekick. At -best-, they get a scene where they solo a sub-boss, solve a problem, or rescue the hero - once. Perhaps it's because the goal is to get the reader to identify with the narrator's view/character, which is why we get so many self-insertion fantasy novels, and some of us were trained 'Pick a viewpoint and stick with it.'

Sure, there are heroic ensemble pieces. But even the Avengers movie had to have each one of them have their own separate movie first, and one of the best screengrabs from the trailer? Has them looking in separate directions.

I know, I know, I'm missing the point here, you're thinking. What you're seeing is that when you have X > 1 hero(ines) in a matchup, they don't see the others as equals, and heroic female protagonists don't seem to have equals either. What I'm saying is that there aren't a lot of heroic male equals-starring tales either - it's a hero dynamics thing. It's why it took so long to have Jet Li and Jackie Chan in a movie together, and even then they kinda did their own thing rather than work together. Heroes and heroines work their best buttkicking awesomeness when they don't have any help. Buddy pictures are an uneven dynamic -- good cop/bad cop, good/crazy, inhuman/moral compass, ubercompetent/chronicler, teacher/student, demon/human, serious/comic, smart/action (aka brain/jock), responsible/screwup, and the list goes on.

I actually have a novel in the works (that I'll probably never finish -- it was a NaNoWriMo novel) that has two competent female characters using the smart/action dynamic; I took the British Detective genre and mashed it up with Spaghetti Western in Weird Steampunk World. But even I wound up splitting them up into their own separate side adventures, with the British Detective getting into trouble from creepy killers and the Ranger Gal in a Prophecy situation after being overpowered and left behind. It was way easier from an action flow perspective to write back and forth between one character and the other, with the intention to reunite them later.

"Now I know why Superman works alone." - Batman


-Trav
It's not that you're missing the point, it's that when you're talking about a loner scenario in our modern fiction, where the hero has no "peers," just subordinates, obstacles, and enemies, with the exception of a love interest, a "spunky girl sidekick," and maybe one out of four bad guys, everyone he/she meets will be male. Male is treated as the norm to the point that the idea of other female loners is almost impossible in most settings.

Has Ash in Pokemon (a "loner hero," oddly enough) ever had two female companions? He's had two male ones. Has any of them ever had an effective "female" Pokemon who didn't belong to a bad guy? I think the last "I am the hero, I am better than you" I saw where it had gender parity to a female "norm" was Sailor Moon. Usagi had friends, but even when Serenity was dominant, she fought, knew, loved, and interacted with other women.

It's not even friends, at the end of the day. It's getting a 50/50 split in those stories which don't allow for friendships.

traveller_blues

5 years ago

elialshadowpine

5 years ago

"...collection of boiled sugar girls in sparkly dresses..."
What's boiled? The princess or the sugar?
The sugar. :)
Always liked that Kelley Armstrong's series allowed for multiple strong female characters. Jes Battis' OSI series has a strong female lead who learns to trust & lean on some of the other women in her life, too.

And this is one of the things (apart from the fixation on sex) that always bothered me about the Anita Blake/ Merry Gentry series. Ridiculously powerful female leads, surrounded only by strong male counterparts. Any females as friends are too weak to keep up the friendships. Lost interest & haven't even read the last few books.
I think I would have lost interest in the Armstrongs pretty fast if she hadn't brought in Paige and the others as of book three.
It can be easy, as an author, to smooth and sand the story until all the unnecessary characters are gone.

This is absolutely beside the point, but that's one of the reasons I'm a Tom Bombadil supporter. He may not need to be there, but he just is. :)
I so get that.
How do you feel about the show Rizzoli and Isles, Angie Harmon's political views aside? I think the two female leads keep each other from becoming the female loners that they otherwise would be, had the show been a more typical "male-female cop and consultant" type show.
I love that show. And I love that Jane's mother is there all the time. I do wish that there were other females on the police force, though.

dangerpronered

5 years ago

ruggedo

4 years ago

elialshadowpine

5 years ago

dangerpronered

5 years ago

The best way I've heard of for dealing with character isolation in storytelling is from Francesca Coppa's essay in _Chicks Dig Time Lords_: make each character special, but not unique. Basically, as I mentally frame it, any two characters should generally have at least one trait -- age, race, gender, class, favorite game, planet of origin -- in common with each other, and at least one of the shared traits between any two characters should be something that they do *not* have in common with any other single character. No one gets to be, or has to be, The Princess -- at least, not without calling out the specific characteristics of Princessery in the story, e.g. being nobility, and female, and not actually in charge -- nor can a group just all be Princesses without other things connecting and differentiating them as individuals. That guideline has really changed the way I read and evaluate characters and stories.

This is an aside... but it was also that essay that finally helped me realize just why Nyssa has always been so important to me. She was, more than any other character who's ever been on the show, or pretty much any show, the kind of person I wanted to be. But even though gender was irrelevant to what I loved about her, I couldn't see beyond the character's gender, and my own, well enough to believe that I *could* legitimately be like her. Until recently. So, now, after all these years, I can finally say it: I WANT TO BE LIKE NYSSA. NYSSA IS MY ROLE MODEL.

And she is in fact a princess. So, even relevant. Sorta. With effort.
Do you have a link to that essay? Because I'd love to read it in full.

muddlewait

4 years ago

rhoda_rants

4 years ago

seanan_mcguire

4 years ago

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It drives me crazy when the main UF character is one of the only female characters in her book . . . especially, when the other female characters are villains/competitors. It jsut perpetuates the "females are evil" stereotype . . . or the "men make better friends". :::sigh:::
Agreed.
In other words, what you're saying is Disney Princesses and urban fantasy girls are all transgender boys.
Not quite, but it's a fascinating idea.
Hey, Seanan. Unrelated to this post, but I have a couple of fey questions (not your mythos specifically, just in general), and I was wondering if you could help me out since you seem to a know shit-load about them. What's the best way to contact you?
My website contact link is the best way to reach me, but I'm super-busy these days, so I don't know how much help I could be. Primary research is always best, if you check my "reference" tag, you can find a lot of the books I use.
It gets everywhere, doesn't it?

I was just reading Choices of One, a Star Wars Rebellion-era novel, and admittedly it's a bit world-limited (the Imperial military being 99.999% male), but the story has a major cast of about twenty, of which the two female characters are Princess Leia and Mara Jade, and of course they never so much as lay eyes on one another. It even got lampshaded, Mara being aware that she didn't have any friends.

I was like, couldn't the warlord or the Rebel commander or some of the alien soldiers be female?
Of course not. That would be DISTRACTING.

Ugh. Sometimes I just want a hammer.

ruggedo

July 10 2012, 08:42:24 UTC 4 years ago Edited:  July 10 2012, 08:43:17 UTC

The very wrong thing that is stuck in my head while reading all these comments and the original post is "but they made Pez dispensers out of them!!", and then I ate three packs of cola Pez.
Heeeeeee.
Independent of nothing whatsoever, I would love to see a Princess Klatch where they all get together and kvetch about the trials of being a pretty pretty princess. And compare tiaras.

OMFG I love tiaras. It makes me want to win the same award you won a few-odd years back JUST SO I COULD WEAR THE TIARA AND HAVE A REASON FOR DOING IT.
TIARAS ARE THE BEST.

Also, I now understand Tip so much better. Because TIARAS.
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princesselwen

October 6 2012, 12:44:28 UTC 4 years ago Edited:  October 6 2012, 12:46:24 UTC

Well, even Thor had more than one woman. (And I'm glad it did, because Darcy was hilarious.)
I don't mind the story having no women, or few women, as long as I can think of a reason why. Like in Toy Story, most of the toys were male, because they're a boy's toys. And the one female doesn't go on the adventure . . . because she's china and would break. (Though they do introduce Jessie in the next movie to counteract that.) Its when there's no reason why there shouldn't be a woman in that situation--and yet there isn't one--that it becomes a problem.
I mind when they don't think it through. Like why did we not start with a non-breakable female? Or make the bully next door a girl, with girl's toys? There were options, and they chose not to take them.

princesselwen

4 years ago

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