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June 18 2011, 02:13:15 UTC 6 years ago
I'm saying that it looks to team like he did that, but with their particular biases, it all got out of proportion.
I don't think he did anything shitty at all.
With regard for the abuse, I get the feeling Dave kind off chose to be the punching bag, as I think I said to you in another comment. But you're right, it is a classic abusive relationshp pattern, which I should've acknowledged up front.
I'm having trouble trying to communicate what my thoughts are about the Shaun/Becks sitch and everybody's reactions to it. I may have to let that percolate before I try to type. Everything I type comes out not sounding like what I'm actually trying to say.
June 18 2011, 02:35:38 UTC 6 years ago
I don't think you said to me that Dave chose to be the punching bag, but it's entirely possible you said it somewhere upstream. I read the whole 770+ comments before going to get dinner, and I'm sure I could have missed it. Heck, I missed that Shaun and Georgia were having sex.