1) My response time is generally measured in weeks, not hours. Sometimes it's measured in days, and those are the scary times, because those are the times when I have somehow managed to make my inbox disappear. Fire may have been involved. I try to answer time-sensitive things first, and sometimes I succeed. If you email me three times in three days, going "WHY HAVEN'T YOU ANSWERED ME YET?!" the answer will change from "Because I was busy" to "Because I have started deleting your email for fun."
2) Okay, so everyone is afraid of spammers and having their email address harvested. I get that, I really do. But I don't have a mailing list, I don't automatically subscribe you to my newsletter when I get an actual email address in my hands, and I don't have the magical capability to beam my response to your thoughtful and impassioned email directly into your brain. Honestly, I don't! I know, that was a shocker to me, too. So when you intentionally withhold part of your email address from my "contact us" form in order to keep it safe, you also keep yourself safe from my ever answering you. And if I notice the missing address after composing a thoughtful and impassioned email of my own, you have annoyed me deeply. Which makes me sad, because I hate to be annoyed.
3) Mira Grant and I have our own inboxes. I check them both, since I'm both people, but email submitted through her website goes to a different place. One which I check less often. If you actually have something time-sensitive, it's best to send it through my main website, just for the sake of hearing back before the sun turns cold.
And those are your memos for the morning.
April 21 2011, 16:30:50 UTC 6 years ago
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April 21 2011, 16:37:31 UTC 6 years ago
:)
April 21 2011, 17:03:00 UTC 6 years ago
April 21 2011, 16:49:09 UTC 6 years ago
I've just been someone's secretary, hired when the ratios got too high for that sort of thing, a lotta lot of times. The fact you respond *so* often, regardless of the amount of time elapsed, is deeply appreciated here. (Do I often wonder 'omg, the only time she has for this is to slap me because I stepped in it' when I see the entries in the inbox? Yes, yes I do. The fact is? You never do. Thank you for that.)
There are a lot of reasons I like you so much. The fact you write so well often has little to do with it. (I could wish other people would pay more attention to these small moments. They really do make up all the awesome in life.)
April 21 2011, 17:03:10 UTC 6 years ago
April 21 2011, 16:56:55 UTC 6 years ago
When/if you do respond (days or weeks later) I have to wrack my brain to remember the context of the comment. Then I giggle with delight because you really do not need to respond to every comment, but you make a superhuman effort to.
I understand your OCD makes you do this. My SO also has OCD (plus and entire alphabet of conditions linked to his PTSD), so I think I understand the compulsion. But you really don't have to respond to me. Just keep writing your books, your blog and your songs. That, to me, is response enough.
April 21 2011, 17:03:53 UTC 6 years ago
April 21 2011, 18:20:12 UTC 6 years ago Edited: April 21 2011, 18:22:00 UTC
No, I am not volunteering for either. I have enough trouble editing
ETA: Squeee! An immediate response.
April 21 2011, 21:24:03 UTC 6 years ago
Strange thing, I can relate to that. I've people at work who are like that. Either via email or phone calls. It doesn't help if someone calls me once, then immediately again, and again, and again. If I can't take the call, I can't. Last time a guy whined why I hadn't taken the call first time he called me got him a detailed reply of me being a human being who sometimes needs to go to the loo. Funny, shut him up.
Anyway... I ramble.
April 23 2011, 00:52:08 UTC 6 years ago
Ugh. I hate when people do that. Not ramble; prod.
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April 22 2011, 21:10:41 UTC 6 years ago
Oh, gods yes... back in the days when everyone had pagers but almost no one had a cell phone, I had a couple of 'friends' that would page me... wait maybe 2 minutes, and page me... repeat, ad nauseum. Didn't matter how many times I pointed out to them that if I didn't answer the first page, I wasn't near a phone - and might not be near one for several hours. It didn't take long before those pages were an automatic delete without response.
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