Further: "And building off of this burning question, if your crazy fae is a land/title owner is it then passed down, or since they're still around does it just stay theirs forever?"
Let's talk about the fae's rather casual approach to sanity, shall we?
Lots of people have noted that there seems to be a relatively, well, high number of seriously unstable individuals in Toby's world. Some of this is biological (please don't ask; much will be made clear in Late Eclipses), and some of it is just that when you're going to live forever, you get really, really, REALLY bored. Older fae disassociate themselves completely from the world on occasion, simply because the weight of everything they've seen and done and been and are can get to be too much for them to bear. They'll spend a few decades wandering the hills and dales, purging their psychic baggage, and then come back just fine, if somewhat divorced from the emotional context of their own memories. Fae madness is not an exact cognate for human mental illness. It is, ironically, how they stay sane.
Amandine is very young for this kind of crazy, being only around five hundred years old, but she's always been an over-achiever.
Fae sanitariums do exist, but are usually reserved for a) people who have been through some sort of severe trauma, rather than going naturally a little nuts, b) people who have been driven crazy, either through magical or mundane means, and c) people who have been brought in by relatives who don't want to see them get hurt. There's actually a real danger to grouping too many unstable fae in the same place, since there's always a chance they could decide to run away en masse and start a new Kingdom in the middle of the Mall of America. Most of the time, if someone is judged to be relatively harmless, they're just allowed to go wherever they want to go.
No fae landholder would turn away someone in need of help. So the crazier fae wander from knowe to knowe, being fed and cared for until such time as they wander off again. The ones who choose to stick to the woods, like Amandine, are likely to find food being set out for them in pre-established areas. In short, the fae treat their unwell like stray cats. There's not much else that they can do.
It helps that right now, all of Faerie is confined to the Summerlands, where it's reasonably hard to get hurt unless you're putting some serious effort into it. The climate is unpredictable but usually mild; fruit-bearing trees are common; game is easy to find and hunt; the monsters that exist are pretty well-aware that eating fae gets you hunted down and killed, and thus don't do it unless they're really, really sure they can get away with it. (Some of the wandering mad do go missing every year, it's true. So do some children...and some monsters. Crazy or not, purebloods fight back.) When some of the deeper lands are accessible, like Tirn Ailil or the Isles of the Blessed, things get a little more difficult. In fact, traditionally, the wandering mad were often exiled to the Summerlands, where they'd be less likely to get munched.
In the case of fae landholders who go mad, if there is no associated title, they keep their land until someone comes in to try deposing or otherwise disposing of them. Amandine has a tower that is basically the fae equivalent of a really nice house. The odds are good that she'll be able to keep her land until she sanes up enough to need it again. With titled fae, two questions come into play. "Do they have an heir who is ready to take on the position?" And "Do they have subjects who are willing to cover for them?" If the answer to the former is "yes," the odds are good that they stepped down when they felt themselves getting fuzzy. If they didn't, they may either be deposed, or simply have their heir step in as a short-term replacement. If the answer to the latter is "yes," they may well simply be covered for by their courtiers, who are unlikely to want to deal with a new regent.
If the answer to both is "no," well. They're likely to come back from their roving to find that they're no longer in charge, and that they aren't too popular with the new management.
So that's fae madness. Please keep in mind that fae madness is very different from genuine mental illness, and I am in no way commenting on humans with psychological problems by explaining the way things work for the denizens of Faerie. They're wired differently, both physically and mentally, and while you do get fae with genuine long-term psychological problems, they are the minority. Changelings are more likely to have issues with straight human cognates, and even they wind up modified by the differences in biology, psychology, and everything else.
February 25 2011, 19:07:33 UTC 6 years ago
Presumably there's an interesting... uncertainty to when, or if, someone is going to come back, refreshed from their Mental Stability Vacation. This probably explains a lot of the, er, feyer faeness, really. (Fayatude?) It's got to do fascinating things to a society where allies and enemies (and oneselves!) go on Mental Health Jaunts with little warning.
Mmmm, alien race! No wonder these are so cool.
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I have to say, I've never bought into this idea - I know it's a highly prevalent one (you see it when it comes to vampires as well, the idea of boredom, ennui, stagnation).
When I think of the chance to live forever, it thrills me:
1. I get to watch the world and all its creatures evolve and change
2. OMG, I can read more books
How could one possibly grown bored?
February 25 2011, 19:42:20 UTC 6 years ago
Taking a break so you don't see so much of the Same Old Evolution as it's happening, but can get to the real gems... I could see that.
Of course, were I an immortal fae noble, I would have my courtiers stock up on ALL THE BOOKS just in case, for me to read when I got back. >_>
Going walkabout might help with the whole evolution thing, too. Kind of puts it on fast-forward.
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My son was recently diagnosed with OCD. You've been pretty open on your blog about your OCD. So I have questions. (See above.)
1. How old were you when you were diagnosed?
2. How do you deal with the down sides of this disorder? You've found the upsides for you (i.e. being super organized, having routines, etc.) but what about the irational thoughts and absolutly knowing that this routine won't fix the fear/problem, but you have to do it anywa?
3. Have you used meds or therapy (or both) to help?
Even if you can't answer, thank you for your time and being an OCD face for the world. It was easier for my son to get the diagnosis when he found out "the woman with wings" has it too.
February 25 2011, 20:08:24 UTC 6 years ago
2. I know my triggers, and telegraph them clearly to people. I own by episodes. If I come over enough to have "my chair" at your house, and you take it, as I am freaking out, I will do my best to explain that this is my problem, not yours. I have mental loops I can run when I start getting stuck; most of them involve math problems, some involve very familiar "what if" scenarios.
3. Therapy didn't help much, but I tried it. I've been on Wellbutrin since late 2008, and it's done a lot to reduce the anxiety and stop the panic attacks. I'm not getting symptomatically more severe, although I do still have episodes.
I don't mind at all. If you have questions you'd like to ask more privately, you can go ahead and email me. And tell your son that OCD just means he can kick everyone else's ass at board games.
February 25 2011, 19:55:29 UTC 6 years ago
I wonder if you've thought of an almanac. You know, in your "copious free time".
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She hasn't tried to kill anyone? Or just not that we know of?
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Taking a mental health sabbatical sounds like a good thing to do. Me, I just want a vacation.
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February 25 2011, 23:21:59 UTC 6 years ago
Actually, this would explain quite a bit about the MoA. :-)
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Somewhat OT: is there somewhere (interview, blog post, idk) that I can learn more about fae genetics? So much curiosity...
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but - a society of humans facing the same issue [memories atop memories, ad infintum, until insanity or amnesia spares one the overload] and the society created various ways to deal with it. lots of nifty sounding things - training you're brain to store memory differently [this was before research that says it's probably memory is holographically stored was done, of course] and "memory washing" - removing the memories and storing them on some other medium.
i have a book i've been trying to write for FOREVER where the whole POINT of the book is a small group of humans become immortal - and, after a mere 2 centuries, start killing themselves from ennui, those who don't find ways to go mad to stay sane.
it's an interesting thought experiment, and i'm VERY excited at the hint that there's going to be more about available on Tuesday!!!
do the Fae have any ideas on how to control their memory? i get the wandering to distance themselves from the memory, and make it less over-whelming, but is there more?
also: can part-fae inherit? like, can Toby inherit her mother's tower? could she inherit a title, if her mother had one? or is that spoiler-y?
March 10 2011, 03:48:32 UTC 6 years ago
No, changelings can't inherit.
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"Oh, Amandine's off for a bit. I'll check in with her oh, in another decade or so."?
And does this ever happen with any of the Firstborn? An above-average Daoine Sidhe off in la-la land isn't that big a deal. The Luideag, however...
March 5 2011, 05:30:38 UTC 6 years ago
2) Yes. It does. And they are usually left alone because OH GOD NO.
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